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PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2017 14:49 pm 
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Location: Hartlepool, Cleveland
Real Name: Michael Webb
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Recently, i`ve been wondering if my whole interest in the hobby of living history/re-enacting/however you define what we do is really worth the effort nowadays?

I`ve been into the hobby for many years, starting in a Napoleonic Wars unit before moving on up to WW2 once i`d gained more background knowledge, but its recently that i`ve been doubting whether to continue doing what I love - going to events, either in uniform or as a 40s civilian.

After getting as much information as I could on my grandfather`s (dad`s dad) army service - IOW Rifles 1933-1936 and RA 1940-1945 - I figured that I`d get the correct kit to 'be' him at events, sharing his story. Quite a lot of positive comments were received, but when it actually came to being at events/requesting to join a group, i kept getting the whole 'can`t do this', 'he didn`t have that bit of kit', 'he didn`t serve in that regiment', and quite a lot more nit-picking.... quite disheartening when I`d gained as much info as I could from reliable sources. I`m no expert and never claimed to be, but i do know the difference!

I also researched the life of my great Uncle Joe - my RA grandfather`s older brother - who was a conscientious objector, but used to transport Italian POWs to do farm work around Hampshire/Wiltshire. The idea had been to get some civilian kit - appropriate clothing, gas mask, shoes and the like - to represent his life as well, but yet again i`m finding lots of times - and i`m not saying it is fellow re-enactors/living historians here - that I get quite a few negative comments, ranging from 'your too old to do that sort of thing', 'your *genuine CC41* clothes are all wrong', 'COs were all locked up in prison coz they waz traiters, innit'.

Like I say, i`ve never said i`m an expert on the subject, but i know enough to get by with, like many of you out there. Its just disheartening to think that I`ve spent the best part of 20 years, on and off, researching my two relations lives and what they went through, to feel so much negativity. I do welcome comments, both good and bad, on what i`m doing, but I wouldn`t ever dream of telling anyone the reason for their portrayal (family member, connection to a regiment, or whatever it may be) is wrong.

I`m seriously thinking about giving up the whole living history/re-enacting hobby, getting rid of the kit i`ve got and storing all my notes on my relations away and finding a hobby with little stress and that is boring..... like stamp collecting or sitting on the patio watching the grass grow (apologies if these are your hobbies outside of this, but i always preferred interaction with people).

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PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2017 15:04 pm 
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Location: STAFFORDSHIRE
Real Name: Jon Flint
Group: Beyond the Chindwin, Burma campaign.
I understand how and why you may feel this way.
Unfortunately this hobby does attract some idiots.
It's a sad indictment of the hobby but by its very nature it will always draw in wannabe's and know it all's

Granted some do have a lot of knowledge, but they also generally have very small penis's and an over inflated opinion of themselves

I don't know whether you're in a group or do your own thing ?
But if you've researched your family members and you're happy with the detail / info you've discovered, then don't let some bombastic t*** ruin it for you.

Keep with it mate or join a group who have shared interests and enjoy the hobby for what it is, not for brow beating down others

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PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2017 15:17 pm 
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Real Name: Michael Webb
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Thanks, Jonny.

I`d never profess to being a stitch Nazi, nor FARBy. Have met a couple of veterans who made some great comments on my kit, which I was grateful for.

I did try and join a certain group - i won`t name them here - and I found several of their members were a bit 'up themselves' (putting it as politely as I can!). I have spoken to a couple of other groups, especially about my civilian set-up (based on my Uncle Joe, the objector), but its being able to get to an event where I can chat to them about joining. I know I could go solo, but I enjoy the contact of being in a group at an event. I shall certainly do my best to get the weekend off for one or two of the larger events and speak to a few of them

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PostPosted: Fri May 19, 2017 20:59 pm 
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I've felt the same way about the hobby as well chap. Felt the attitude of some at certain events does nothing to honour the memory of those who have gone before us, it's just descended into a big game of dressing up really in some quarters (not all!).

Like has been said, don't let folk's comments put you down when you know it's right! Well done for putting such effort in to the research as well!

I've become somewhat disillusioned with the "scene" as it were. People who appear to have all the gear but no idea of what things are actually like....there's got to be an element of that in there too somewhere in a group.

All the best with your hunt to find a group!

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Ignore the idiots. I nearly gave up myself, I do my grandfathers service in Burma and India and the number of people who try to tell me I've got things wrong, then I pull out the photos I have and they soon p**s off! Keep at it. It's not so bad a hobby!

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PostPosted: Sat May 20, 2017 1:43 am 
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The_Commander wrote:
Ignore the idiots. I nearly gave up myself, I do my grandfathers service in Burma and India and the number of people who try to tell me I've got things wrong, then I pull out the photos I have and they soon p**s off! Keep at it. It's not so bad a hobby!
If you are a member of 'The Road To Mandalay' then you almost certainly have got things wrong. I do agree with your advice "Ignore the Idiots" - in which case why do you bother to continue posting?


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Real Name: Neil Robertson
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I sympathise with your plight, I really do, but you need to decide if you:
"Want to do an impression of one person" or if you want to "join a group".
Most decent groups portray a generic impression of a unit within a certain time frame, and as such have uniform standards that must be adhered to.
Simple really?

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Location: Aberystwyth, Ceredigion
Real Name: Adrian Hollis
Group: AFRA, portray- RA AA gunner, 9th AF pilot
Michael,

It seems as though we have a lot in common. I portray relatives (in fact, one of them being my great uncle, who was in the RA), and for the most part, many are really interested in their stories, and are very complimentary about my kit. There are the odd few that really bring you down, and although people will tell you to ignore it, it is very hard to do so, especially when you are being told you're wrong about kit that you have researched again and again. I'm always for people giving advice and helping out, but it is when they become down right rude about you, that it becomes a chore, not a fun and enjoyable hobby. I even get fed up of coming on here sometimes and seeing people just churn off cr*p on certain posts, and how it turns into either a huge argument, or a case of 'I know more than you', which is why I had a while away from it. I came back, and nothing's really changed...

It's even tougher for me, as I deal with Living History for my day job as well, and sometimes the whole hobby can become overwhelming for me, and I feel like jacking it all in.

Then I realise just how much I enjoy attending events. Certain events I go along in my kit, with the Mrs, and enjoy the atmosphere. Other events I will have a display with a group of mates, and I really do enjoy engaging and connecting with the public. This is the reason I do it. Talking to people and educating them on my families history, and that of the lads who fought alongside my relatives. I enjoy speaking with the vets, and teaching children new things. In that short period, all the 'agro' and 'negativity' disappears, and I again realise why I joined the hobby. Not a power trip, not to make others feel crap, not to have my photo taken and to be on the internet somewhere, to educate, and to enjoy.

All I say to you Michael, is keep on with it. Maybe have a short time out, or a break. go to the events and find that spark again. It will come. Hopefully might bump into you at an event at some point!

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Yes it is, the stitch counting tossers are a pain, as opposed to helpful critics who actually want to see you do well

If they ask Why pick that? and are genuinely interested it's likely they're in the latter category
if anyone walks up to you and says 'I think you should know that's wrong' just ask them if they have
period underwear or socks on, are their buttons sewn on with cotton or polycotton thread
nobody has the right to upset someone else because they can, but the other side of the coin is
why let them upset you, you KNOW you're right, the fact they're a t*** is something they and their family have to live with, and you only get to speak with them for a few minutes. Ask then when was the last time they actually enjoyed a show without upsetting anyone perhaps?
As for why?
I'm the bloke who was a Nazi Nun Paratrooper at Chatham,(LDV exercise) nobody could argue with the social commentary there!

Good luck and just keep enjoying yourself :)

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